Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone.

If you're ready to elevate your craft and perform at your best, it's time to embrace a key element of growth: stepping out of your comfort zone. This is the first part of our series on this crucial topic, where we'll explore why pushing boundaries is essential for your artistic evolution as a singer, performer, music producer, and songwriter… 

Understanding the Comfort Zone

Your comfort zone is that cozy, familiar space where everything feels safe and predictable. It’s the routine you’re used to, the techniques you’ve mastered, and the habits you’ve developed. You feel like you’re in your flow here because you feel, well, comfortable. But here's the catch—staying in this zone is a barrier to growth.

When working with vocal artists, my goal is to push those boundaries. Think of it like expanding your vocal range or exploring new styles. Initially, these experiences might feel uncomfortable or even awkward, but that’s a sign you’re on the right track. Just like when we learn something new, we start by feeling "weird," but with practice, it becomes second nature.

Embracing the Discomfort

Feeling uncomfortable doesn’t mean you're doing something wrong. In fact, it often means you're stepping into new and exciting territory. Let’s redefine "weird" as an indicator of growth. If a new technique or performance style feels strange, it's just new. It doesn’t go against your core beliefs or your artistic identity; it simply represents a different approach. When you feel and see the results that are helping you achieve your goals you KNOW this uncomfortable weird stuff is the right stuff!

Play and Exploration

One of the most effective ways to get comfortable with discomfort is to embrace the beginner's mindset. Try something completely new—take a pottery class, learn to play a different instrument, or even try line dancing. The goal is to feel like a beginner again, which can be incredibly freeing. No expectations of high-level outcomes, just trying it out, exploring.

For example, my young children build towers with magnetized blocks. When their creation topples, they don't get frustrated. Instead, they see it as an opportunity to start over with enthusiasm. My son literally says, “We get to do it again!” With a smile on his face. This playful mindset can be incredibly liberating. It helps us accept mistakes and approach new challenges with a sense of curiosity rather than fear.

Bringing the Beginner Mindset to Your Craft

Translating this beginner's mindset back to your main craft—vocal performance, songwriting —can be transformative. Regularly stepping out of your comfort zone can help reduce fear and build confidence. This means tackling new techniques, experimenting with different genres, and even changing your practice routine.

For instance, if you’ve been doing the same vocal exercises for months, you’ve got to mix it up. Incorporate exercises that challenge you in new ways. Get a coach or ask your coach to give you a new challenge - with your upcoming goals in mind. This keeps your practice fresh and prevents stagnation. Remember, the process of growth involves both discipline and play.

The Importance of Routine Breaks

Sometimes, taking a step back can also be beneficial. Don’t be afraid to take a break from your music. When you return, you’ll approach it with fresh ears and renewed enthusiasm. This technique of stepping away and coming back can make familiar material feel new again, which can spark new ideas and creativity. Go do an input day - be inspired by checking out art in another discipline. Your artistic mind will percolate new ideas for your creativity!

Looking Ahead

In our next installment, we’ll dive into the world of self-promotion and social media. If you’re looking for ways to get to work today, check out ways we can work together here.

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